There is a difference between being married and not being married. That difference has come into sharp focus in the romantic life of French President Francois Hollande, a sort of Socialist Sun King around whom women revolve. All of his female companions are reputedly strong, but none seems strong enough to tell him to scram.
Instead, they suffer and complain and jockey for the orbit closest to the star. You see, he won’t marry any of them. That included Segolene Royal, the ex-live-in who bore his four children. Royal reportedly asked him to (I quote Beyonce) “put a ring on it.” (Royal was not without status, having herself run for president of France.)