Annie, why won't my children or grandchildren invite me over?

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Posted: Saturday, November 2, 2013 12:00 am

Dear Annie: I am hurt that my children and grandchildren do not include me when they have family get-togethers. They say they would have to clean their houses if I came, or they don't know when I am available. They expect me to call when I want to see them. They swear they aren't upset with me, but they never initiate a call. When I invite them to my house, the conversation revolves around recent outings and get-togethers at their homes to which I haven't been invited.

I have taken my grandchildren on many vacations over the years, but they are teenagers now and too busy. They don't want to go unless I include their friends, which I cannot afford. I recently decided not to call them and have had no contact in more than three weeks. Should I just go on without them in my life?

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